Recently, I reflected on an experience I had, as a child, when my next-door neighbor told me God left me in the sun too long. This encounter with the boy next-door hurt me deeply. It damaged me emotionally and it took years to fully remove that image from my mind.
Have you ever seen the countenance of a child change? It is when a happy, vibrant, and care-free child gets damaged in some way. Their idea may be dismissed, they may be spoken to with contempt, or even physically assaulted. The transition is often sudden. One event or exchange changes their entire personality and spirit. It is very sad.
Our usage of words is so important. They have power! Take these four (4) words: “You Can Do It!” They are personal, actionable, directional and focused.
When was the last time you used your words to encourage a child’s idea, project or efforts? Have you taken any time lately to check-in on a personal level with the children in your sphere of influence? Can your words course correct or bring healing to a wounded little soul?
The storybook Lovely Can highlights the importance of adults encouraging a child’s idea. Your words can shape, restore or catapult the energies of a child.
Oh! After I told my mom what that boy said, she used words and hugs to comfort me. She didn’t use any obscenities to convey her anger to the boy’s parents—but they probably wished she had!
Her lesson on “Child Advocacy” cut without leaving a mark, and taught me a thing or two as well. Use your words to support a child! They can make all the difference in the world!
by Sheila Agnew-Opoku
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